Sermon preached Sunday, December 17, 2023, the Fourth Sunday of Advent, at Lutheran Church of Our Saviour in North Chesterfield, VA.
What comes to mind when you think of Mary, the mother of Jesus?
Do you imagine a Christmas pageant, with a young woman dressed in a blue and white robe kneeling by a wooden manger? Maybe you imagine her in the Pieta, the famous statue at the Vatican with Mary holding Jesus after he is taken down from the cross. Or maybe you connect with this painting by Henry Tanner of a young woman being faced with the forbidding image of a formless angel.
There are a lot of ways the Church has tried to understand her and her role throughout history. In some traditions, she is thought of so highly she almost becomes a deity herself. She is sometimes referred to as “Theotokos,” or the bearer of God, especially in Orthodox circles.
On the other extreme, we have traditions who largely ignore her role. If you think about the names of protestant churches, Lutheran churches, we have a lot named after various saints like Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, even Stephen, but I don’t think I’ve ever heard of one called “Saint Mary’s.”
The Gospel writers didn’t portray her the same way either. In the Gospel of John, she has no name. She is simply called the “Mother of Jesus.” In Mark, she appears in a story in which she and her other sons comes to take Jesus home, to stop his ministry, because they don’t understand what he is trying to do. It’s largely the same in Matthew, although at least in that gospel she appears at the tomb on Easter morning.
In Luke, however, she is vitally important. She has this conversation with the angel Gabriel in which she is called to this unique task. Her conversation with Gabriel is remarkably similar to the call stories of prophets found other places in the Bible.
There is a greeting: “Greetings favored one! The Lord is with you.” Mary’s frightened or confused reaction. Gabriel then tells her, “Do not be afraid,” and gives her the commission: “…you will conceive in your womb and bear a son..” Mary objects, or at least questions this by pointing out that she is a virgin and Gabriel reassures her and offers her a sign, the knowledge that her relative Elizabeth, even in her old age, is six months pregnant. Finally, Mary is ready, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.”
She is presented as an ideal: an ideal mother, woman, and, yes, prophet. So just what is it that makes her this ideal? What makes her the “favored one,” chosen to bear God, out of every other young maiden around her at the time?
Perhaps it’s her willingness to accept what she could not understand—her ability to live with the unknowable and incomprehendable. Mary asks for clarification: “How can this be, since I am a virgin?” Gabriel answers, “The Holy Spirit will overshadow you…” I don’t know about you, but that’s not quite the explanation I’d be looking for. I’d want to have a few more specifics! “Yes, yes, the Holy Spirit, yada yada…but how?!”
But Mary accepts this mystery. She may not know how the Holy Spirit will do its work, but she trusts it will be done.
For the amount of new and rather alarming news Mary receives, she accepts it all and will later sing of how blessed she is that God has chosen her—that God has done great things for her, lifted up the lowly and filled the hungry with good things.
I’ve heard the fourth week of Advent can be thought of as “Summary Sunday.” The readings for this Sunday speak back to the three weeks prior and give a nice wrap-up of this waiting we have been living in.
So if today is meant to “sum up” Advent, what does that mean? Does that mean that Advent is all about preparing ourselves for mystery? For things we cannot know? What would that mean? Is Advent all about waiting for something we can’t understand?
Well, yes! The incarnation, the amazing miracle of God choosing to come and live among us, in the body of one of us is something I cannot explain. I don’t think anyone can. How was it done? What are the real, hard, concrete facts of the process?
Mary’s story calls us to be comfortable with mystery. Are you? I can’t say that I always am. It’s a struggle. I don’t even like the mystery of Christmas presents. I’m always trying to figure out what people have gotten me! So when I’m faced with accepting a truth without knowing all the process or logic behind it, I struggle.
The truth of it is, there is no way to eliminate all mystery from our lives. We try—oh man, do we try!—but we can never succeed. We try to monitor every aspect of our lives. The internet has made it nearly impossible for someone to remain completely anonymous. And science is finding new information every day to help us understand the world around us.
But I’ve also heard scientists say that for every new discovery they make, for every phenomenon they figure out, they are left with new questions. The questions never end, they only change. They may become more concrete or shift in focus, but we will never have answers to all of our questions.
Which brings us back to mystery. It’s best if we can embrace it!
A Carthusian monk wrote this: “Mysteries are not dark shadows, before which we must shut our eyes and be silent. On the contrary, they are dazzling splendours, with which we out to sate our gaze.” (A Carthusian, They Speak in Silences)
Ignoring the mysteries does nothing but frustrate! Looking at them, holding them, speaking about them, gives our lives new depth and nuance.
When we speak about mystery and God, I often use the phrase “Holy Mystery.” Sometimes I use it in jest, when I have no answer to why a table moved or why a box suddenly appeared in the hallway.
But more often and more genuinely, I use it when I refer to the things God has done and continues to do for us which we have no explanation for.
In baptism we use water and I speak God’s promises. I baptize in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, but I know that I am merely a vessel for those promises God has already made. God is doing all the working, all the acting, and I am representing that.
How does God claim us in baptism? How does our baptism make us a child of God more than, say, splashing around in the lake? Holy Mystery. God has promised to work in baptism and I trust that promise. I don’t need to see charts and formulas.
Same thing in communion. We have bread and wine. I give thanks and say the words of institution, blessing the elements, but I have not made them the body and blood of Christ. God did. How? Holy Mystery.
This might sound like a cop-out: saying “Holy Mystery” to avoid thinking too hard or working to figure it out…but I think that living with mystery is some of the hardest work there is. It’s so difficult for us to let mystery come into our lives and remain with us.
So maybe that’s why this text about Mary’s trust and acceptance of things she can’t understand is so important for us. If the bearer of God can take on that role with little protest, perhaps there’s hope for us yet.
Mystery is how God works. Baptism. Communion. The Incarnation. The Resurrection. Prayer. These are part of our faith not because of concrete evidence, but because we trust that God is present and faithful. God doesn’t abandon us in our inability to understand, but comes again and again to show us that we don’t need to understand to receive grace.
Unexpected and mysterious are the ways of God.
Amen.