Sermon preached Sunday, November 12, 2023, the Twenty-Fourth Sunday after Pentecost at Lutheran Church of Our Saviour, in North Chesterfield, VA.
This is kind of an in-between time. We just had two major festivals: Reformation and All Saints Sunday. In two weeks, we’ll enter into the season of Advent…but, in the meantime, we’re back to the color of green, back to the season of ordinary time, back to quote-un-quote “Normal.” Except, not really. It’s almost as if we’re in a time of “Pre-Advent,” where our readings already have us anticipating Jesus coming into our midst in a different way.
This morning’s reading is from the 25th chapter of Matthew’s gospel. This is the chapter right before Jesus’ passion begins. Soon, the religious leaders will be conspiring against him and finding concrete ways to bring him down. Things will begin to happen quickly as Jesus enters his last few days in Jerusalem. As the tension builds in the narrative, Jesus tells three parables about his second coming. The first is this one about the ten bridesmaids.
Does anyone know what the word “parable” means? [look for raised hands.] Para means “along side of” and ballo means “to throw.” A parable is a story used to throw two things alongside each other to make a point. In this case, the image of the bridesmaids and bridegroom is thrown alongside the anticipated kingdom of heaven and return of Christ. It’s important to keep this in mind because this is not an allegory and it shouldn’t be treated as such. It is a story used to illuminate, not to explain. If we push the parable too far, take it too literally or assign it too specifically, it will fall apart and will no longer be helpful. This is a parable about preparedness, not judgement. That’s where our focus is drawn.
So, here we have ten bridesmaids—five of them are apparently foolish and five of them wise. When we hear it, we are prone to fall prey to two temptations. The first is to self-identify as the wise, prepared bridesmaids, and believe that this parable has nothing to tell us because we’re already set to go. The second is to be terrified that we are one of the foolish bridesmaids and drive ourselves crazy trying to work ourselves into having enough oil, whatever it is oil is supposed to represent.
We become obsessed with this oil. We become obsessed with making sure we have enough: enough faith, enough good deeds, enough credits in our “respectable Christian” piggy bank to make sure we’re ready for the bridegroom when he arrives. It becomes about checking things off a list, which is exactly the kind of thing the prophet Amos takes people to task over.
Amos was writing to the Northern Kingdom of Israel not too long before they will be overrun by the Babylonians and the Israelites will be scattered and taken captive to Babylon. He warns that destruction is imminent because of their sinful behavior. He takes them to task for worshiping other gods…but, perhaps more importantly, he berates them for their treatment of the poor. They have been continuing to do the proper things to worship God: the correct rituals and the appropriate prayers, but they are lacking in caring for the most vulnerable among them.
This is why God is so angry here: “I hate, I despise your festivals and I take no delight in your solemn assemblies.” (Amos 5:22) In other words, it doesn’t matter if the Israelites say the right words or perform the right actions if they fail to do the bigger, more important work of feeding the hungry and clothing the naked. The Israelites figured they were doing okay, but forgot that it’s not just about following prescribed rules.
They lost sight of the big picture.
We lose sight of the big picture. We pay attention to the showier parts of our faith…but sometimes we forget about the on-the-ground work that we are called to do—the work of ushering in God’s kingdom.
We’re presented with these two groups of people in today’s parable. Our tunnel vision means that we try to figure out whether we are foolish or wise and how to be sure we have enough oil. To be honest, though, it doesn’t matter all that much which group we fall in. Both groups have things to learn. Both groups have things to teach us.
The bridesmaids with brightly lit lamps and plenty of oil are prepared. They have plenty of whatever it is oil might represent: justice, kindness, righteousness. They are ready for the bridegroom’s coming. They are ready for the Lord’s coming. It wouldn’t matter if it was delayed for even longer. The other bridesmaids have little to no oil; little to no mercy or compassion. They don’t shine light into the world but are focused in on themselves.
If we find ourselves standing with the foolish, we know that we still have time. We, here today, still have time to engage in our mission as disciples of Christ. Although the believers in Jesus’ time believed the second coming would happen in their lifetime, we know that we can no neither the day nor the hour…but as of now, as of this moment, we still have time. We have the chance to do better. We have the grace of a second chance.
And if we find ourselves standing with the wise…well, we don’t get off scot-free, then, either. I mean, to be honest, they’re not exactly showing their best colors. When the foolish come to them and ask for help, they are rebuffed. “No, you can’t have any of our oil. It’s ours and you should have thought further ahead. You don’t deserve our help.” Nice, huh?
Would we expect people full of God’s love to speak like that, to treat people like that? Or would it be more fitting for them to say, “Come with me. Perhaps I can’t fill your lamp, but we can walk together by the light of mine.” If we find ourselves identifying with the wise, it is imperative for us to remember that we are not isolated. There are people all around us who are in need of oil, in need of help. People who could use some guidance in how to live in God’s light; people who maybe want to participate in the reign of God, but need a little coaching. We cannot ignore the cries of others simply because we believe we’ve got ourselves sorted out.[1]
So even here, we see that the wise are little foolish: they are still unable to understand what their fellow bridesmaids need. And the foolish are a little wise: they recognize their deficiencies and ask for help. Which are we?
The good news is that, in the end, it doesn’t matter. In the end, we’re probably a little bit wise and a little bit foolish. In the end, because of who God is, we are given all the oil we need: all the grace, love, hope, comfort, healing, and joy we could possibly require. In the end, the bridegroom arrives in due time and we can walk comfortably and confidently in the glow shining from the Light of the World.
Amen.
[1] Inspiration for this characterization and the second quote come from Fred Niedner’s notes/handout for his workshop, “Preaching Reformation, Repentance, and Renewal,” at the Institute of Liturgical Studies in 2017.